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Although I'd bought the ticket a month earlier, I didn't decide to attend Darren's Greensboro show until a couple nights before. It was a mad scramble to figure out accommodations (first place I booked canceled on me), the ticket (my physical ticket never arrived), and paying for it, but in the end, it all worked out.

I was on the road at 7:15am just as a torrential downpour hit. Not cool. It let up as I headed southeast out of Dayton, and it was rainy/misty until I hit WV. I remembered to not gawk too much once I crossed the state line, but failed to bring cash for the WV Turnpike tolls; they'll let you through, but you'll pay a $5 penalty PER TOLLBOOTH for failing to pay. ouch. I will be getting that EZpass.

Virginia bought the beginning of the gorgeous fall colors, and heavy fog. loved the former, terrified by the latter. Turns out NOT being able to see what's over the guardrails is worse than being able to see the drop-offs and whatnot. This is also roughly where I lose my signal, which includes my GPS and streaming music. hooray for downloaded tunes!

my Airbnb was lovely, a large room with ensuite bath in a first-floor apartment just south of downtown. It was maybe five minutes to the venue/parking.

As I was approaching the venue, I saw Darren and Zach crossing the street, but was too far away to catch them. So I went on in to the bar, grabbed a drink, and caught them by surprise when they came in a few minutes later. They both seemed happy/surprised to see me, and once again Darren told me I shouldn't be making the drive. They still had to write up their set list, so they got down to business and texted a friend.

They were both a lot more relaxed than when I saw them in Catskill, which was good to see. I can only guess the sort of pre-gaming they took part in, or maybe just being so close to home took the pressure off. they had virtually no room to move on the tiny stage packed with the headliner's gear, but Darren rolled with it, joking that they were going to forego the whole setup and just stick to guitar and keys. They opened with Anything You Need, and played at least 3 Hotel Lights songs. When no one really reacted to that band name, he joked that they were really good, and we should look them up. I tried to yell "their lead singer is hot!!" but couldn't get it to come out. He also mentioned having his albums for sale, or buying them online, on your phone, to listen to, on your phone... (no, Darren, tell us how you really feel). He flubbed the beginning of one of his older songs, and just rolled with it, starting over and laughing it off.

After the show, we did get to chat a bit. He asked what other bands I'd seen lately (HS Marching Bands and Better than Ezra), and we laughed about me re-living the 90s. I told him I'd be at his Atlanta show for sure, bringing a friend, and he let me know it's a house concert. "oh, cool, I like house concerts" I told him. he was surprised i'd heard of them, let alone been to one. As I was leaving, I remembered I had a book for him in my car - Amy Hempel's Collected Stories. Told him I was too tired to go fetch it, and he said I should just bring it to Atlanta.

Tickets for Asheville and Atlanta have been purchased, now to figure out the rest!
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Popped down to Greensboro yesterday to see a show at Flat Iron in Greensboro. Oh, what do you mean most people don't take a jaunt of 450 miles for 45 minutes of music by their favorite performer?

They look to hold an eclectic schedule of events, with Night of the Living Dead the feature this Friday the 13th, and various and sundry musicians every weekend.

Their website covers most of what a newbie would need to know. Never did figure out the Children's Museum parking thing, but that's ok.

Finding it - it's on a main road, just a block north of the Steven Tanger Center for the Performing Arts, which was also having an event that night. Traffic was a bit spicy, but well-controlled. I took the venue's advice and went for the Davie St Parking Deck ("parking garage" up here), and was able to play my crip card for a swift street-level spot facing the road I'd need to walk up. Parking was supposed to be $10 paid at the exit; by the time I left, I got out w/o paying. win!

The walk up was a straight shot, about 3 blocks, well lit with small little eateries on the opposite side of the street. Felt 100% safe. Crossing Lindsay St everything went from high-end well-lit to normal old-school neighborhood. I hadn't had time to check this all out before sundown, but I'd done a virtual walkthrough on Google Maps, so I was good with it.

Building was well-marked, and there was nothing more than a standard threshold to the entry - no stairs or anything. the turn to get into the venue might be tight for a chair user, but nothing there seems permanently fixed, it's more various things to block the line of sight from the street to the stage. a couple guys out front smoking were friendly when I approached (employees), and the guy working the door was similarly friendly checking my e-ticket. Another reminder to me that scruffy unshaved tattooed guys aren't scary.

The men's room was straight back on the left side of the bar, right next to the stage. o.O the ladies' was on the other side of the bar, luckily. Again, no stairs or anything, but navigating that corner might be hard if the place is crowded. there was a partial stall w/o a door, so the door to the restroom itself had to be locked, which I nearly didn't see at first. oops.

The bar had 15 or so stools, plus 4 tables up front with stools. another half-dozen were against the far left wall by the stage, which is where I camped out, in front of the sound board. Didn't realize til too late that the stage was angled a bit towards the corner of the bar. ah well. They had two cameras on the stage - one straight on from the sound board's perspective, and one 90 degrees off that. each projected to a nice monitor in the bar area, so you could still see the full performance. no idea if it was just for real-time broadcast or if they were filming for the artists. Stage was crowded with five guys and a host of instruments, and this was AFTER the opener took their gear down; those two didn't have any room to move at all.

They had the typical bar drinks menu, with a few non-alcoholic options, too. My Liquid Death was $4.50, less than at Bogarts. They don't serve any food, but did have a popcorn machine going, and a giant water jug next to it. Standard bar stuff.

The location is sort of off by itself; on my way back to my airbnb, i ended up going through the neighborhood with the hip shops/bars/cafes. S Elm St, I think, on the south side of Downtown, near Southside. Would definitely see another show there! The Finns have a two-night holiday show in December that I'd kill to be at, but that's really pushing my luck ...
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I bought the ticket for the show, but the rest of the trip isn't going to happen unless a miracle occurs. Still don't have the full damage, but I know it's not pretty.

Dan seemed interested in going, but even with sharing expenses, I doubt it'll work out and not make things worse.

Adulting sucks.
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It may not be expensive, but what will it cost?

Darren Jessee has a show coming up in Greensboro next month. The best I can tell, he's the opener, given the website info only features Tyler Ramsey.

I really want to go. Like, I've-nearly-booked-a-hotel/airbnb-already level of want.

Thing is, last time I jumped the gun, within a day of booking everything, other options came up which may have worked better. So, to stall a bit, let's break down the cost of this trip:

ticket - $20
gas - $125 (3 tanks of ~11gal @ $3.75/gal)
tolls - $30
hotel - $200 ($75-100/night with all the fees and crap not initially disclosed in listings)
food - $100

so, let's just call it $500. Do I have $500? of course not. In fact, do I not only NOT have that $500, I'm behind on a bunch of other bills, to the point that if I did have that kind of money not otherwise accounted for, it'd go towards those late bills.

Getting there would be driving, obviously. Flights would be well more than cost of gas and hotel, and I really don't care to cater to the whims of the airlines. my friend Ben said that tickets get cheap if you book within 24 hrs of departure, but I don't know if I'm willing to cut it that close.

Additional costs include the over-due oil change and tire rotation that Rover needs that may happen today, or maybe tomorrow, and the physical cost of doing nearly 1000 miles in three days. I have one vacation day not yet accounted for (i think!) that could be used to drive down on Friday, or as a recovery day on Monday. Or I could do The Crazy Thing and drive down Saturday morning, arriving in time for check-in. I mentioned that plan to a friend, and she immediately commented on how tired I would be, and would I even be able to enjoy the show? point taken.

my other dilemma is "why?" What is the purpose of doing this to myself? I'm still dealing with residual pain from the NY trip. What am I going to get out of this? Live music, yes. Seeing Darren perform for a 3rd time this year, and quite possibly with an actual crowd? that'd be cool. Would I get to see him and chat with him? How would I feel if he did not respond favorably to my presence? Am I going for the music or the person?

most importantly, where is Ben Folds playing that Thursday night?

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